"Forgiveness is the sweetest
revenge." I saw this wonderful old saying again in a book recently. It got me to
thinking about all the times that I have been able to forgive others in my life
and all the joy that it has brought me. One memory stands out particularly well.
I was a young boy spending a week at 4-H camp during the Summer. I was having a
great time and enjoying everything about it except for another young boy about
my age. To say we didn’t get along would be an understatement. We spent most of
the week irritating, insulting, and picking on each other. Words finally came to
blows on the next to last day of camp. We got into a fist fight which I lost.
Thankfully, older boys broke it up before I was hurt too much. I spent the rest
of the day alone, sulking and stewing in my own anger.
The next day my spirits were lifted, however, when my
Mom brought the boys in our cabin some of her delicious homemade pizzas. I was
enjoying a few slices of it when I saw the other boy sitting by himself at the
bottom of the steps outside. He seemed very lonely right then. I am not sure
what moved me to do so, but I took my pizza down and shared it with him. It made
all the anger and pain inside me go away. We became friends after that. I never
got into another fist fight either. I had found out that sharing and forgiving
were way more fun and a lot less painful.
Forgiveness truly is the sweetest revenge. It can turn
an enemy into a friend. It can free a heart from the chains of anger, hatred,
and pain. It can open a soul to the sweetness of love and joy once again. It can
help you to live by the Golden Rule and to create a Golden Life. It can bring
you back to oneness with God in everything you think, feel, and do. That is why
I often pray, "God help me to forgive, help me to give, and help me to love."
May your life always be full of sweet forgiveness then. May you always delight
in its Heavenly charms.
Joseph J. Mazzella joecool@wirefire.com
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