Some years ago, I attended a self-improvement
seminar and the speaker was Jim Rohn. He said, "Everything matters in life, some
things a little and some things a lot, we just don't know which is which."
Moreover, I believed him.
Now if I may, I would like to relate a personal experience, which occurred when
I was a motorcycle officer that strengthened this belief and taught a young man
that everything in life does indeed matter.
I was a motorcycle officer with the Los Angeles Police Department and I was
working speed complaints out of West Traffic Division. On 6 January 1986, I was
working a speed complaint on one of the streets in the hills of Bel Air. It was
around 9:30 in the morning. I had stopped at the base of a hill and had placed
my radar on the handlebar of my motorcycle to monitor traffic coming down the
hill.
This was a residential area and the road was narrow with numerous curves and was
posted at 25 miles per hour. I had just finished writing a couple of tickets
when I heard the audio on the radar, looked up the road and saw a small sports
car coming down the hill. I glanced at the digital readout on the radar unit and
saw that the car was traveling close to 50 miles per hour. I stepped out into
the street and waved the driver over to the curb.
The driver was a young man in his early 20's on his way to UCLA for a morning
class. I told him why I had stopped him and started to write him a ticket. He,
of course, did not want the ticket and tried to talk me out of it. His name was
Christopher and he was a good kid. Nevertheless, he was trying his best to stop
me from writing him a ticket. Never rude, always polite, but determined to
convince me to let him go.
We bantered back and forth, he would raise his voice in support of his position,
but I calmly explained why he should get the ticket. When he saw I was still
going to write him the ticket, he asked me, "What If I had not stopped; you were
not on your motorcycle, would you have chased me?" I replied, "Most likely not".
About this time, I heard the audio on the radar and noticed that the digital
readout registered 52 miles per hour. I looked up and saw a young man coming
down the hill on a motorcycle. I stepped out in front of him and waved him into
the curb. He was going too fast and passed us, but he was slowing down. I walked
towards the motorcycle rider and my back was to Christopher.
The motorcyclist had turned around and was coming back to me. The he suddenly
made a quick U-turn and sped down the hill. I turned around and walked back to
Christopher and said, "Well, one got away."
He said, "I waved him on".
I said, "What?"
He said, "I waved him on."
I replied, "Oh, no! You should not have done that."
He had a puzzled look on his face and asked, "Why not, it won't matter?"
I told him everything in life matters, some things a little and some things a
lot. We just do not know which is which. The look on Christopher's face clearly
indicated to me that he did not believe me. I finished the ticket and we talked
a little more about life and philosophy, then Christopher went to class and I
went to court.
Three days later, I was back working that same area and had three cars stopped.
While I was writing the tickets, I noticed that a car coming up the hill had
stopped across from me. There were three or four people in the car. It was
obvious to me that they were waiting to talk to me.
I finished the last ticket and the driver of the car got out and walked over to
me. He had a very sad look about him. I could tell something was bothering him.
As he approached me, he asked, "Do you remember me?"
"Yes," I replied, "you are Christopher."
He then said, "You taught me a valuable lesson the other day when you told me
that everything in life matters. I didn't believe you then, but now I do."
"How do you mean?" I asked.
"Do you remember the boy on the motorcycle?" He asked.
"Yes," I replied, "I do remember him."
"Well," he said, "he was my roommate and that is why I waved him on. I thought I
was helping him. After he turned around, he made a wrong turn and went down a
street, which ended in a cul-de-sac and hit a large planter in the center of the
cul-de-sac. He died instantly. You were right when you said everything in life
matters."
I was shocked and found it hard to believe, even though I had been with LAPD for
18 ½ years. We talked for a few more minutes. I expressed my sorrow, we shook
hands and then we both left.
I rode to the station in Venice and looked up the traffic reports for 6 January
and sure enough, there it was. I still could not believe it. I mentioned what
had happened to another officer whose was in the station at the time. His
response was that the kid deserved to die for fleeing the scene; I thought this
could not be happening; I do not want to be like him.
As police officers and especially motor officers we are suppose to be saving
lives, not pleased because some kid made a bad decision and died. Over the next
several days, I gave a lot of thought to this situation and my life in general.
I decided I did not want to be a police officer anymore and I needed a change.
So I resigned in February 1986 after 18 ½ years with LAPD to pursue my passion,
network marketing.
I thought that I should listen to my own advice about how everything matters and
look at this situation as an opportunity to make some serious changes in my
life. I have never regretted leaving LAPD even though my business plans did not
quite work the way I had hoped back in 1986. However, over the years, they have
and I have had a successful network marketing business since 1995.
Could now be the time for you to make a life change? If it is, I would encourage
you to do so. Based on my experience you will not be sorry. I turned 65 in
September 2008; I am in great health and could not be happier.
Duane Spears
Duane Spears is an Insight of the Day subscriber. He was born and raised in
Osawatomie, Kansas. He graduated from high school in 1961 and joined the US
Army. After 3 years with the Army, he went to Los Angeles in 1966 and joined the
Los Angeles Police Department. Duane quit LAPD after 18½ years to work a network
marketing business. That company went bankrupt after 6 months. Duane then
learned the mortgage business opened his own office on Hollywood Beach in
Oxnard, CA in 1989. Later in 1995, he joined another network marketing company,
left the mortgage business and has been with them for the past 13 years. In
2000, Duane moved back to Osawatomie to be near his son. You can reach Duane at
duane@duanespears.com
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