Voice Mail From Heaven
At twenty-eight, my younger sister's life had ended before it really began. A
year ago she was diagnosed with a brain tumor and my world fell apart. The
vibrant, feisty, beautiful sister who had been my best friend for a lifetime
gradually became a vague shell of herself, replaced with the side affects of her
disease and medications.
This past year had been like a slow nightmare from which I could not wake. My
time eventually became consumed with caring for Angel, endless prayers and hours
and hours of tears. Losing my sister broke my heart, but watching her suffer
shattered my soul. In the months prior to her death, her body began to shut
down; what was left of her abilities to function one by one becoming lost.
She was paralyzed on her right side and her face and body became tremendously swollen from the steroids necessary to control the swelling in her brain. She became weaker and weaker, until she could not even turn over in bed. However, the most painful loss for her was her ability to communicate. Her speech, at first affected by only a slight slur that sounded more like an accent, increasingly dropped off into broken sentences, the words unable to make their way to her lips, and then to only an occasional word here and there.
Angel was
devastated at not being able to form the words that her heart felt and needed to
say. Always a "talker", as are all the "Farr girls", I knew how hard this was
for her. I often saw tears trickle down her cheeks with the frustration of not
being able to bring the words to surface.
Her loss of speech was also incredibly painful for me. I longed for our giggling
sister-talks. I missed the hours and hours of babble and laughter, the bond of
understanding each other as only sisters can. I missed our phone calls and the
sound of her voice and her contagious, delightful laughter. The last
conversation we had was the day before she died. I sat by her bedside, listening
to her struggle for breath and knew her time was nearing the end. Suddenly she
awoke and uttered her last word to me.
"Sooz?" she groggily said my name, stirring beneath her blankets.
I leaned over and took her hand in mine. "I'm right here." She squeezed my hand
tightly and drifted off again. It was the last time I heard her voice. The next
day she left for bluer skies.
The morning after she left this life for the next, I awoke with the deepest,
aching pain I've ever known. With an endless supply of tears, I felt as if I had
shattered from the inside out. I would have given anything for just one more
moment, one more hug, one more "Love ya" from my sister. I was happy for her
that she was with God now, free of pain and full of joy again, but oh, how I
ached to see her again, how I longed for the sound of her voice. And then I
picked up the phone to call Mom.
Hearing the stutter tone that told me I had voice mail, I dialed in to retrieve
the messages. The computer-generated operator's voice telling me I'd had a saved
message for one hundred days, I listened for the message, ready to delete
whatever I felt necessary to save. Nothing seemed important to me anymore.
"Hi Sooz, it's me." I choked with the sobs that immediately came as I heard
Angel's voice, full of life and love once again, her words clear and steady. "I
know you're having Family Night, and I'm sorry to call, but I just wanted to
tell you I love you and thank you for all you've done for me. Call me when you
can." The tears flowed with joy and gratitude at this incredible gift when I
needed it desperately. Her phone call ended with her usual "Love ya!".
I played it over and over until I had it memorized, her sweet voice and flowing
words a gift of glorious, incredible sunshine on the darkest day of my life. I
said a prayer of thanks and knew that this message coming today, of all days,
was not an accident.
Two days later was her viewing. A very painful day for me, I had gone to fix her
nails for her one last time and place a halo of flowers on her scarred head.
Arriving home, aching and sad beyond words, I picked up the phone and heard the
stutter tone again. Dialing in, I plopped down at my desk and my gaze strayed to
a photo of Angel, taken one month before her diagnosis. Seeing her beautiful,
glowing face and sparkling eyes, I longed to see her this way just once more. I
missed her incredibly. My heart skipped a beat as I again heard the operator
tell me I had another saved message from one hundred days ago.
"Hey Sooz, it's me!" It was Angel again. She began to babble about everything
and nothing, just like she always did. I found myself laughing for the first
time in ages, as the sound of her "I forgot my point" message played on. Again I
played it. And again. Over and over until I felt the sunshine in my soul again.
"Love ya!" she said, and I saved it for another one hundred days, wondering on
what day I would hear it again. I smiled at the thought.
And so it's been for the past three weeks. Every time I am at my lowest, every
time I miss her so much it literally hurts my heart, another message saved for
one hundred days is waiting for me. How it was timed so perfectly, I will never
know, but I do know that her messages are a gift, and it is her way of saying
that she is still there, we are sisters forever and she is wonderful again. Once
an angel, always an angel.
Susan Fahncke Copyright 2001
Editor@2theheart.com