Stuffing Our Stuff
I was amazed the first time I saw it. I imagined I never would, but I did.
My brother and I had recently started backcountry camping. Our first trip found
us with cheap sleeping bags that delivered only shivers. So we visited a
reputable camping catalogue and upgraded.
When my six foot one inch bag arrived, it was stuffed in a two foot sack. I
removed it relishing the fact I would never be cold again. What I didn’t
understand was how six feet could stuff in two. Initially it sprung out as
quickly as I stuffed. Eventually I learned to stuff a little at a time.
Stuffing is necessary when backpacking a sleeping bag; otherwise it takes all
available room. Stuffing our sins, however, is deadly. John says:
"If we claim to
be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us." (I John 1:8
NIV).
Admitting what we don’t like about ourselves is difficult but essential:
"If we
confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and
purify us from all unrighteousness." (I John 1:9 NIV).
Stuffing is a paraphrase for repression, and it’s dangerous emotionally,
physically and spiritually. But if you’re like me, I don’t much enjoy admitting
mistakes. It’s easier to transfer the blame to someone else. It’s more
convenient to talk about other’s faults than admit I have the same ones (read
projection). It’s safer to kick the cat than tell my boss how I really feel
(read displacement).
But stuffed stuff comes out; normally in a way that embarrasses us or at
unexpected times. Blowing my top over an insignificant comment my wife made will
probably confuse her. Stuff has a habit of unstuffing after we’ve stuffed too
long. We tire of the effort and of biting our tongue.
Allowing ourselves to feel emotions is healthy. And regularly confessing our
sins to God and keeping open lines of communication with others will keep the
volcanoes in check. It’s better to clear our consciences than stack skeletons.
Prayer: When stuffing seems the easy way out, Lord motivate us to be honest with
You and others.
Martin Wiles mandmwiles@homesc.com
Harleyville, South Carolina, USA
www.morningliteministry.com