Blessed Miracles
"The glory of the Lord will be revealed. And all mankind
together will see it. For the mouth of the Lord has spoken."
-Isaiah 40:5
December 24th started early for me, as my son, Connor and I
drove from Kentucky to Illinois to visit my parents for
Christmas.
It was the usual ride with a toddler - constant talking,
whining, and unlimited questions. Our travels went smoothly,
until we hit a snowstorm. Cars slipped and slid all around
us. It was frightening.
As we continued, the weather cleared up and driving was
easier. Before I knew it we were only an hour away. "Thank
goodness!", I thought.
I hadn't seen my parents since October; excitement
overwhelmed me. Then it happened - we got lost. As I
switched interstates I wasn't sure which direction to take.
Should I head north or south?
"I better call Papa for directions," I muttered.
"I want to go to Nana and Papa's house," whined Connor.
I was frustrated, Connor wouldn't stop fussing, and a red
pick up truck, driving in a frenzied state, almost ran us
off the road.
Tired of driving and eager to get to my destination, I
confirmed which direction I needed to be headed and
continued on. Minutes later, unknown to me, I swerved hard
to the right, across a lane of traffic.
Oh no! I am going to die, I thought as I slammed on brakes
and swerved uncontrollably.
As I crashed into the embankment and flipped over three
times, I heard shattering all around me. I couldn't believe
what was happening. In a slow blur, my life flashed before
my eyes.
Bam! I hit my head.
When I awoke we were upside down. Airbag particles floated
in the air, the contents of my car were scattered, items
were smashed and mangled, and fluids leaked from my car.
The car is going to blow up, I thought frantically. I have
to get out of here.
Oh my Gosh - Connor! I thought. Why isn't he crying?
"Connor!!" I screamed. Silence. I was frantic. My seatbelt
had me locked in.
"Oh God, No!" I cried uncontrollably.
Oh no, my baby didn't make it! I thought horridly. I have to
find him.
The pressure from the seatbelt hurt my shoulder and my head
hurt. I couldn't get my seatbelt unlatched and I started to
panic. Then there it was, the best sound I had heard in my
entire life - a sweet harmonious cry, my baby's cry.
He's alive. Thank God! I rejoiced.
"I am here Connor, Mommy is coming!" I screamed.
Finally! The seatbelt came undone.
Trying to calm myself down, I went straight for Connor, who
was sitting upside down in his car seat.
"Mommy!!" He cried hysterically.
I reassured him everything would be okay, although I wasn't
too sure.
"You're fine, sweetheart," I said soothingly. "Everything is
ok."
Then I heard him, the voice of an angel. "Are you in there?
Can you hear me?"
"Yes, I am here. Please help me!" I screamed.
"Is anyone in there with you?"
"Yes, my baby is in here. I can't get him out of his car
seat!" I slipped further into hysterics. "He's stuck!"
I needed to get Connor and myself out of that car.
"Calm down," the voice said. "Everything will be all right.
Help is coming."
Click. The car seat buckle came unlatched. Thud. Connor fell
on his head with the buckle around his neck.
As Connor cried in fear, I moved faster. I couldn't get the
buckle from around his neck. My hands trembled.
Then...swoosh. The buckle went over his head. I scooped him
up and climbed out the shattered window.
We made it! I thought as I rocked Connor, while he screamed
for his bear that he noticed through the missing window.
I was shivering uncontrollably when he started to
hyperventilate.
"My car flipped over," he yelled.
Then he noticed it - my bloody, scratched up, dirty face.
"Mommy hurt her face," he screamed.
"Everything is going to be fine," a policeman said
consolingly as he handed him his bear.
The ambulance arrived and took us to the hospital. The ride,
examination, and question asking overwhelmed me. A neck
brace was put on while I asked about Connor's injuries. My
arm was in excruciating pain and wouldn't move! A continuous
list of questions ran through my head. I couldn't think
straight, I was disoriented and I wanted to go home.
At the hospital, there were many exams given, tests taken,
shots given, blood taken, CT scan, and x-rays. Everyone was
moving so fast! Doctors and nurses came in to check us,
clean my wounds, and exchange information.
My parents rushed to the hospital to be by my side. I can
vividly remember the expression on my mom's face when she
walked in. She was extremely sad that this terrible thing
happened to us; but elated that we hadn't left this earth
just yet. We were still here.
Several hours later, we were released. I had multiple
injuries; none of which were life threatening. Connor had
minor scratches and bruises. God was with us that day, as he
always is. We were alive, what a blessing.
Although I felt blessed, I had a hard time dealing with the
accident. I was depressed, nervous and worried. I didn't
eat, sleep or drive. I was in constant pain. Then one day I
was reading my bible and read Psalm 105:5, "Remember the
miracles he has done; remember his wonders and his
decisions."
Ah! Instant perspective. God chose to leave us here. His
glory was revealed and my faith and trust in Him grew
stronger.
I learned many things from this unfortunate experience. Most
of all I have learned to live life joyously. I was given
another opportunity at life, to live passionately and
purposefully - to live according to God's purpose. What kind
of existence would I have if I didn't?
© Chrishawn Simpson-MacLeod 2004
cesimpson1@yahoo.com
Chrishawn Simpson-MacLeod, a freelance writer/photographer and girl reflected, writes inspirational articles on a wide range of topics and self publishes Mom's Big Little HelperT, a magazine that inspires moms to find balance in their lives. She is the owner of InYourDreamsPublishing.com, GirlReflected.com, and ChickTherapy.com; websites designed to reflect her creative spirit. She resides in Kentucky, with her husband and son and spends her days writing, taking pictures, creating, and enjoying life.