Stuffing Our Stuff

I was amazed the first time I saw it. I imagined I never would, but I did.

My brother and I had recently started backcountry camping. Our first trip found us with cheap sleeping bags that delivered only shivers. So we visited a reputable camping catalogue and upgraded.

When my six foot one inch bag arrived, it was stuffed in a two foot sack. I removed it relishing the fact I would never be cold again. What I didnít understand was how six feet could stuff in two. Initially it sprung out as quickly as I stuffed. Eventually I learned to stuff a little at a time.

Stuffing is necessary when backpacking a sleeping bag; otherwise it takes all available room. Stuffing our sins, however, is deadly. John says: "If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us." (I John 1:8 NIV).

Admitting what we donít like about ourselves is difficult but essential: "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." (I John 1:9 NIV).

Stuffing is a paraphrase for repression, and itís dangerous emotionally, physically and spiritually. But if youíre like me, I donít much enjoy admitting mistakes. Itís easier to transfer the blame to someone else. Itís more convenient to talk about otherís faults than admit I have the same ones (read projection). Itís safer to kick the cat than tell my boss how I really feel (read displacement).

But stuffed stuff comes out; normally in a way that embarrasses us or at unexpected times. Blowing my top over an insignificant comment my wife made will probably confuse her. Stuff has a habit of unstuffing after weíve stuffed too long. We tire of the effort and of biting our tongue.

Allowing ourselves to feel emotions is healthy. And regularly confessing our sins to God and keeping open lines of communication with others will keep the volcanoes in check. Itís better to clear our consciences than stack skeletons.

Prayer: When stuffing seems the easy way out, Lord motivate us to be honest with You and others.

Martin Wiles [email protected]
Harleyville, South Carolina, USA

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